Dr. Eugene D. Hayes / Leslie C. Hayes
An Unofficial Guide to Surviving College is a collection of stories by the father-son duo Dr. Eugene Hayes and Leslie Hayes to make college life a memorable experience, offering its readers a chance to learn from other’s mistakes. It perfectly blends Dr. Eugene’s extensive experience in the public health sector, mentoring and leadership, and Leslie’s recent trial-and-error experience on college life. As Leslie Hayes says: 'We all make mistakes. When we make a mistake, we have a choice: either dwell on it and let it hold us back, or learn from it and move on. If we learn from our mistakes, we can become better people. We can become more wise, more compassionate, and more understanding. Therefore, our mistakes do not define us. The lessons we learn from those mistakes and how we outgrow those blunders define us.' An Unofficial Guide to Surviving College is a memoir of Leslie’s journey from freshmen to senior year. This book documents his life experiences through a critical lens to save readers from making the same mistakes he made. It is a must-have for high school seniors and their parents, anyone struggling to adjust to college and campus life can gain some insight from this book. College is the first time young students learn to live independently after high school. It is a phase of making independent decisions and the aftermath or consequences of their actions. This stage of life is all about discovering yourself and professional development. It has many ups and downs, feats and defeats. Readers will find solutions to communal problems like procrastination, overspending, social skills, and time management. They have to manage their finances, take care of food, and study side by side; it’s a hard life. Many enjoy these moments while thriving for success; others struggle for survival. Each of the 18 chapters is filled with relatable experiences, useful tips, and resources on making your bachelorette a worthwhile journey. It is a fun read for anyone looking for deep insight and some witty scenarios. Learn the importance of self-reflection, perseverance, and resilience, and remind yourself that if Leslie can learn and grow from his mistakes, so can you.
