Kristina Robertson
Why do they pull away when you need them most?What if it isn’t a lack of love, but a nervous system that learned survival before it learned safety?You love someone who shuts down in conflict, pushes you away when you get close, or reacts to small things as if they were huge. You’ve wondered: Why won’t they talk to me? Do they even want this as much as I do?Loving Someone Wired for Survival shows how trauma, attachment wounds, shame, and addiction shape the nervous system, and why those patterns show up in the relationships that matter most.